Hi H147 as painful as it is Im glad to see you are moving on with things as best you can! Totally see where youre coming from on the tired with being cold front with W, personally for me if H had persisted in going I could never have been good friends with him, a) he had moved two hours away and b) I loved him too much to see him and certainly would have got far too angry at what he had destroyed to play happy families that said our S is a grown up so really wouldnt have needed contact.

It is painful moving on, but also if you ever got back together that is painful too, you might have won the battle but in a way you lose the war as you have to live with a lot of painful memories, Im six months odd back down the line and to be fair most of the time its good, but occasionally old pains set in..

You take care hope the move goes well for you and stay in touch.

Rabbit (())


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!