hey Jin. agree w/ going dark. makes too much sense. u r doing what u need to do for u.
i know it seems as if ur H will never turn around but is too soon to say. sure the EA/PA has been going on for a good amount of time but overall u cannot come to conclusion just yet that all is lost. funny enough am listening to Adam Lambert's song "what do you want from me?" in the background. the lyrics dont necessarily fit ur sitch but the title of the song says it all.
He has some growing up to do, that is clear. u get the true measure of a person in how they respond to adversity. u r rising to the challenge. ur H? clueless bc he doesn't even realize that he is even being challenged. but he will. wait. he WILL wake up and be shocked at what he has wrought. guarantee.
be well. enjoy going out. u r in NYC! cant find a bad place to hang out. i remember. it was not long ago that i lived there. born and raised there actually. u r a fount of strength and are fighting for the right cause.
