Hey man

You know she is having an affair?

Save yourself the pain and drama.

No need to keep digging into it IMO. others might disagree.

What more evidence do you need?

Advice?

DETACH

DETACH

DETACH

from the drama and the pain. Get youself to a calm place and

Then

Figure out what happened. For it certainly did not get there overnight...

You had a part in it. No excuse for her decision but your answer to this lies in looking at YOU.

THAT

Is the only thing you control.

Look you feel like a worthless piece of sh!t right now.

I know.

Now is the time to make a choice. Will you let someone, by their own choice, dictate what you want and believe in your life?

Your choice my friend.

yours alone.

Will your W make it for you?

I am not talking about D.

I am talking about your vows.

What do they mean to you? What does YOUR commitment mean?

Did you say on your wedding day:

"I will love and honor you all the days of my life...

Unless you get scared and lose your way.

Then I won't"

?

She just kicked you in the cowboys.

What will you do?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am