Hey Jin. u r doing great. crazy how the forum went down. u r on the right track. i have read Sandi's posts and she was a WAS herself. i remember her saying how she DID wake up one day. ur H will do the same. unfortunately u cannot predict WHEN that might occur however.
i can totally sympathize about the tears. was doing the same in church bc was going to mass sometimes daily and trying to make heads or tails of the whole sitch. would cry randomly, even in the car. this certainly coincides w/ idea of situational or reactive depr (not true bipolar disorder or the true type of depression). easy to say sure, and harder to live thru.
u have set a goal for yourself. importanly u r GAL. have that party! no contact is the way to go. Tupy totally makes sense. the attachment IS there. he is living a dream. it will not last.
