you really do deserve each other because you are both trying, whether you know it or not, it is obvious in your posts that you both want this so badly. keep doing it and you will concur the frustrations of marriage.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out