You are correct that children are impacted by divorce. In my experience, I haven't seen kids that are impacted by divorce. Before this happened, my kids were quite different. They are still great kids but their opinions about marriage lasting has changed. They were pretty happy children and thought that mom and dad were very close.

I think they will be okay but the scars are there. I am hopeful that they will not repeat the mistakes that their mother and I have made.

Keep the faith buddy.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God