Finding My Way

[Mystik]

Vulcanized, even if H files I can counterfile using the terms I want. But like everyone has said, it won't change things in the end, H will still get the divorce he wants. It will only matter to me what the paperwork says was the reason for the divorce.

bluestar, I didn't even think to ask him if I should file first. I will be having him review the current support and custody order. He told me to make up a "wish list" of what I want and he'll see what he can do to make them happen. Being able to claim DS each year will definitely be on that list.