I'm in a similar place as you. I fully expect to get papers by the end of the month, and am now in the place where I have to decide if counterfiling using the grounds of adultery is worth it. Monetarily, it doesn't make sense because I'd be spending so much on the lawyer and not getting anything out of the divorce, but morally I want it known that the marriage couldn't be saved because H was having an affair.
Like you, I tried to fix things and like your H, mine claims to have tried but really, he didn't. I suspect there was at the very least an EA already going on because each night he went to bed early and made sure to bring his cell phone with him.
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