Hang in there 40. Go out. Don't stew over your sitch. And don't limit yourself to 40+ when you eyeball the babes. But don't hook up with an 18 year old either...
. With the d date so close its hard not to think about what dating will be like, from what I've seen the 40-+ pool of women here where I live is pretty flawed. I met this one girl about 3 weeks or a month ago and the first words out of her mouth was how she had been divorced 3 times and none of them were her fault. I couldn't run from her fast enough she still post on my facebook wanting me to call her. I really think with 4 kids as young as mine there will not be many women interested in me, they will see my kids as baggage I see them as my life. When I was married my wife came before the kids, no woman will ever come before my kids again.
1) Decide what YOU want to do. Then do it. If you want to go drinking, do it. If you don't, just don't.
2) Do something fun. GAL!!! GAL!!! Stewing will help nothing. If you want to watch "In Harm's Way" and eat twinkies until you puke, DO IT! (I recommend something slightly more productive: What's playing at the IMAX in FTW?)
3) Men who are good with kids are attractive! Ah he knows how to treat HIS children, he won't abuse MY children. Dating will come. Confident men are attractive.
4) Good move on the run-away. Important in the dating pool to "drop it like it's hot". Why don't you call? Because I'm not interested in dating you. Why Not? *click*
4) Good move on the run-away. Important in the dating pool to "drop it like it's hot". Why don't you call? Because I'm not interested in dating you. Why Not? *click*
LOL I like that answer
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M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
2) Do something fun. GAL!!! GAL!!! Stewing will help nothing. If you want to watch "In Harm's Way" and eat twinkies until you puke, DO IT! (I recommend something slightly more productive: What's playing at the IMAX in FTW?)
LOL thats 300 miles away, and just my luck I would run into the STBEX and she would call the fort worth PD on me for stalking her :-)
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
