Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
You have 30 something days. Buy the book read it, get a feel for the 'tactics' air quotes because...until you see how these tactics should become real change to how you deal and act in a realtionship you'll see them as tricks to win her back.

Book is on order, but it will take weeks to get here

Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans

Dating.
Some folks here seem to think that is a good idea.
But it's not.

I hear you. Mainly I need to GAL. I know how to go out and date. Other hobbies etc. will be a bit harder. But not too bad. The hard part is here the only thing people do is go out and drink. I'm not an alcoholic but I can see getting there from here, so I'm going cold turkey for a few months.

Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans

You are codependant and NEED someone in your life.

Probably the closest. Where I am I really DO need someone in my life right not, and it is nearly impossible. Not for dating, just for friendship. It is tough, but a short period of time.

When I was in Seattle last week I was asked out on a date. If felt nice, but I didn't go.


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011