What makes you think that she doesn't do negative self-talk too. I think she just said it out loud.
Everyone thinks the truth has to hurt. So they say blunt, hurtful things. The truth of married love is that it is not big, emotion-sweeping, fly me to the moon-type feeling. It is the that invisible fabric that you both should feel ripping right about now. It's in there underneath all of the bigger, short-term feelings that are easier to identify.
Pinhead, I want to talk to Mrs. Pinhead. If she asked you to go to Retrouvaille with her, would you go? Does she know that this could help your family?
