Remind me, Pin if your W is in IC? Picking up on what NCU says, I think in my sitch alot of what is going on with my W is depression from accumulated life hits/stresses (many of my doing...) that has nuked her emotions, self-esteem, and sense of sexiness globally. Do you get the sense from your W that it is a global shutdown of affection/sexuality or does she talk about being attracted to other people?
I mentioned that the other day when we were talking about what would happen (if we stayed together) and found ourselves attracted to someone else.
She didn't say much, just kind of ignored me when I said "I'm sure you're physically attracted to lots of guys."