Remind me, Pin if your W is in IC? Picking up on what NCU says, I think in my sitch alot of what is going on with my W is depression from accumulated life hits/stresses (many of my doing...) that has nuked her emotions, self-esteem, and sense of sexiness globally. Do you get the sense from your W that it is a global shutdown of affection/sexuality or does she talk about being attracted to other people?
I mentioned that the other day when we were talking about what would happen (if we stayed together) and found ourselves attracted to someone else.
She didn't say much, just kind of ignored me when I said "I'm sure you're physically attracted to lots of guys."
1. Guillian-Barre Syndrome (70% total body paralysis) 2. Lyme Disease w side-effects including arthritis-like symptoms for about 2 years.
3. Alopecia-areata (hair all fell out).
The first and the last were auto-immune disorders.
Didn't have them all at once (thank goodness), and I am fully functional with a full head of hair, but that stuff taught me to appreciate little things... like not feeling like crap all of the time, walking and wiping my own butt, and having hair!
Wiping your own butt is a good thing.
Everybody on here should give immediate thanks for being able to wipe their own butts. Let me tell ya....
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M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
Everybody on here should give immediate thanks for being able to wipe their own butts.
Let me guess you use "dryer sheets."
Love Friday afternoons. Hope all you punks have a great weekend. Got a 15 mile run in the am for the marathon training. Then the beer drinking starts.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
What makes you think that she doesn't do negative self-talk too. I think she just said it out loud.
Everyone thinks the truth has to hurt. So they say blunt, hurtful things. The truth of married love is that it is not big, emotion-sweeping, fly me to the moon-type feeling. It is the that invisible fabric that you both should feel ripping right about now. It's in there underneath all of the bigger, short-term feelings that are easier to identify.
Pinhead, I want to talk to Mrs. Pinhead. If she asked you to go to Retrouvaille with her, would you go? Does she know that this could help your family?
Which mara are u training for, Coach? And which race is is ur May half goal, Pin?
This running and ass wiping talk reminds me of the first marathon I ran, they had people at the aid station holding popsicle sticks with this thick goo at the end. Being clueless, I thought they were handing out Gu (energy gel) on popsicle sticks, so I happily grabbed one and swallowed a huge wad of the stuff. Then I started spitting and hacking everywhere, almost vomiting (not breaking stride of course -- places to go), cause it was so hideous. Everyone was looking at me like, are you high??? I had just chowed down a huge hunk of vaseline (for chafing).
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
What makes you think that she doesn't do negative self-talk too. I think she just said it out loud.
Everyone thinks the truth has to hurt. So they say blunt, hurtful things. The truth of married love is that it is not big, emotion-sweeping, fly me to the moon-type feeling. It is the that invisible fabric that you both should feel ripping right about now. It's in there underneath all of the bigger, short-term feelings that are easier to identify.
Pinhead, I want to talk to Mrs. Pinhead. If she asked you to go to Retrouvaille with her, would you go? Does she know that this could help your family?
I'm not doing negative self-talk (whatever you mean by that). :0
If she asked me to go to Retro, I'd consider it carefully. I would still move out next week, but I might go. I've told her about it before, she wasn't interested.
