Seriously, though, trust is such a bugaboo. Also involves the leap of faith on your part to give the trust (and withholding that trust from fear/vulnerability can also be a roadblock). In many WAS sitches, it's the lynchpin of whether the WAS trusts the permanence of changes enough to reconnect/pursue the LBS.

How would you take that leap of trust? Feelings? Haven't we read over and over that feelings can be poor signposts?

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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