My favorites are of the "I am doing you a favor" variety.
For example, "This is really best for everybody. You deserve to find true love.".
It's absolutely hysterical to think about how drop-dead serious somebody in an affair can be about "finding true love" until the wheels come off of their affair.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
My favorites are of the "I am doing you a favor" variety.
Au contrair. When stbx eluded to this being right for us (the D) I agreed and told HIM that I was happy because I saw his decision as him doing ME a huge favor
Antlers, your story is very touching- and sad. What's impressive though is that even through the sh*t storm you kept on and worked on yourself. You're a better person, you've learnt a lot through this experience and while the results are not what you wanted it wasn't all in vain. They say things happen for a reason even when we don't understand them at the time. So who knows maybe in 5 years from now you'll look back at this experience and find that this really did launch you on a path that was better than the one you were on before.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
