But with that said, she's doing and acting pretty much what I'd want, with the exception of initiating affection. Maybe I expected too much too soon.
So.. she'd be initiating affection?
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But her motive is what's moving me.
What you know about her motives is what she has told you. So she'd be charming and trying to win your affection too?
I just wanted to get to the root of how you will know if things change.
Initiating affection. Not sex, but affection. Wanting to spend time with me, not just with me and the girls. Showing interest in me, the things that excite me. Being attracted to me. You can tell when that's working.
A lot of this is in place, but part of it is a trust issue too. After she "faked it" for so long, it's hard to know if she's continuing to fake it.
