Trying to grow a backbone!

[ClingingToHope]

I'm proud of myself, it usually takes me dozens of paragraphs to get my point across.

Your situation is tough. If my STBXW came to me wanting to keep the physical relationship going I know deep down in my soul I'd probably jump into bed with her. I miss her physically way more than I do emotionally.

Instead, she wants to be friends ... and I don't want that. I want the friend with benefits.

Anyway, if that started up again then the whole destructive relationship cycle would start all over again.

I don't know what's better, having the ex available for sex, or just having to make a clean break.