Parts,

You feel like your wife needs to do something...

You're here she isn't.

Look I am a huge advocate of Divorce Busting.

If you feel you need to put the bare minimum in to feel better about trying to save your marriage, then consider that done.

However, it is going to take alot more work than that if you really came here to see if it could be done.

This place is about the 'chance' to save your marriage, there are no guarentees. IF you think your marriage is worth the fight, then by all means fight for it, but to say 30 days or else, get used to the 'else' idea.

About your marriage, I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince a guy who took vows of love in front of his friends and family to be married, that should be coming from that guy.

If I seem harsh?
Its because it seems like you already made up your mind.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet