Yes, I agree, I planted the seed and have no intention of bringing it up again. It is so hard to be patient. Especially at this time in my life. I need a level of concentration unlike ever before to finish my program. You're right, I would love to be the exception. I do think he will have to miss me for some time before there is a chance of going forward. I was very, very proud of my progress yesterday. Doing 'OK' today. It has been weighing me down trying to find the opportunity for letting him know I still want to go to counseling to learn from this. I will definitely back off again.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."