Yes, I agree, I planted the seed and have no intention of bringing it up again.
It is so hard to be patient. Especially at this time in my life. I need a level of concentration unlike ever before to finish my program. You're right, I would love to be the exception.
I do think he will have to miss me for some time before there is a chance of going forward.
I was very, very proud of my progress yesterday. Doing 'OK' today. It has been weighing me down trying to find the opportunity for letting him know I still want to go to counseling to learn from this.
I will definitely back off again.


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."