I'm really not trying to be thick guys. I thought I did answer the question when I said I haven't let the old marriage die yet. Did I miss something? Oh, and the fear. That was fear he would do me bodily harm. Like, with a gun.
Do I know where I played a part in his response? Yes, I let him push me into losing my temper, giving him yet more reasoning for everything he has done to hateful punkin.
Our original emails this time around were friendly and nice. Agreeable. He became angry and spewing when I refused to change our plans to meet at his lawyer's office without mine present. He continued to spew and threaten, and then does a complete 180 degrees on me "Are we meeting at 2:00?"
Long story short - we can't communicate yet. Better the L's handle it.