Helping yourself can sometimes help your marriage. It's funny how a few tiny changes in your perspective can change everything.
This is what I'm thinking. Fix me and it's a big step towards fixing our marriage. My IC uses the oxygen mask analogy...If I don't put my mask on first, I risk passing out trying to put it on my marriage.
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."