Ugh...reeling from my 2.5hr bumper to bumper commute this morning. Took me over an hour for the last 6 miles. So aggravating when you leave home at 6:45AM and don't get to work till 9:30AM. Luckily it doesn't happen very often.

Wii, those are great suggestions- thanks. I'll keep them in mind.

Sol, you sound like you know your drinks! I don't drink but hey I can be persuaded to do just about anything with enough motivation smile I should be finding out about the D stuff soon. Not looking forward to it but it's gotta get done.

I think for most people it'll be after the D is final because you no longer have the legal stress looming over your heads. You can finally breathe and feel free- if there is such a thing when kids and support payments are involved...but still.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again