I texted H and said I am so sorry you are in so much pain.

He said "Me too...I have no idea how to get out of this funk..I seriously don't know how I am going to make it"

I replied" You have to try. Our kids would NOT be better off without their dad."

He replied "I know..and all I do anymore is hurt you...I hate myself for it and need to be where I can't hurt you anymore"

I am not sure whether I should reply to that or not. I don't know what to say.

Me-40 H-41
M: 10 yrs T: 12
S9/D5
ILYBINILWY - Separated: 01/06
Reconciled: 08/06
H depressed again: 02/10
Separated again: 9/17/10