And my IC has to remind me that I did everything I could, he chose to leave, so don't let him put the guilt on me. Same goes to you...
Yep and keep reminding yourself of that. You tried. He walked. Not your problem. At least you were a good person who wanted to work on your M, which is what you're supposed to do! DUH! LOL. The WAS' have a strange view of reality.
BBJ and Sol... thank you! You are both right and in my heart of hearts I know this to be true. Most of the time I can remember this. I have realized that minimizing contact with H is best for me right now. When I don't have him accusing/manipulating I can remember these truths and move forward in my healing. I do have peace of mind and heart that I did all I could and then some. I know you ladies can rest in that for yourselves too. (((Hugs)))
