Half Baked Spring Chicken

[Truegritter]

My mind knows this, my heart still grieves for what cannot be. That is a necessary step yet to be taken by me.

I agree Punkin. You are stuck right here.

I think this is a true statement for a lot of us, is that, 'He/She didn't love me enough to right the wrongs. Just ran away like a child who broke a window with a baseball.' "Wasn't me, don't know".

You know this is tough.

I see this in my W just as you describe. She chose selfish choices, self destructive choices...

I will never know the pain she is in. You will never know the pain your H is in.

The only thing we do know Punkin is they are in crisis. The degree of which varies depending on a lot of things.

Issues from childhood, mental health, hormones whatever.

We did not break them and we can't fix them.

But we can decide not to be part of the problem.

We can decide to love them in the best way for them right now.

I want him to love me the way we once loved one another, without conditions.

Is this what love means to you?

Is this the answer to my question?