Very insightful, very true. It is not so much that you are a money maker for her, but you provide a safe place for her (emotionally). You can turn this into a positive. You can use this to lead your R to new places if you so choose.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11