True, when I said I had done all I could for H, I meant to get him help with the PTSD and alcoholism.
This is what I mean by nodding your head.
You already did this BEFORE he left.
What can you do after that?
Originally Posted By: Pun
It is true I still love the idiot.
I do not doubt this Pun.
I am challenging you to look at what this means.
It may mean something different than it has ever meant to you before.
There still is the unspoken BUT in there...
Originally Posted By: pun
If he's straightened out, we can be friends. We started as friends. If not, it's a moot point.
If frogs had wings they wouldn't bump their a$$'s a hoppin'
Listen there is more in you than just this date that is looming for you.
For some reason that old story of the footprints in the sand comes to mind.
You know walking on the beach everthing thing is good and there are two set of footprints...
Then when the challenges come in life there are only one set of footprints.
And you ask "why have you foresaken me? When I needed you most you were not there? there was only one set of footprints and I walked alone."
And God Answered "It was then that you did not know. When you needed me I carried you and that is why there were only my footprints that you saw left in the sand."
How would you want to be loved Pun?
What does it mean when you say you love the idiot?
What does it mean when say our vows?
We are not God. But he has given us everything we need to understand love the way he loves us.
We are capable of this kind of love.
It is the kind that heals. It is the kind that can do all things. It can work miracles.
Things we never thought possible.
Things we never knew were there right in front of us.
Read again what I have written to you.
This is not about what H is doing so you can go dark and then you won't know what's going on.
But
Eventually you have to come into the light.
You can do this.
Answer my questions.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
