She started bargaining; saying she'd do anything. That (as we had discussed in the past) we could provide better for our daughters together than apart.
I asked her if I had heard her right the other night when she said she'd leave if it weren't for the children, and she said yes.
Maddening. Even as she's bargaining and being upset she is saying she is only with you for the kids. I am so sorry, Pin.
((((Pin))))
It will and does get better though. I can promise you that.
Maddening is right.
At one point, I said "W, you don't love me. How can you expect me to stay here with that?" She got upset and said "That's not true." I replied, "You don't love me the way a wife should love their husband." And she got upset again later when I said I wanted to be with someone who loves me.
Woman is seriously confused. So worried about money. Hell, she's not losing anything except me. She'll stay in the house, have the girls 6 days/nights. Me? I'm giving up a lot, so much time with my daughters, a house that is the best I'll ever have, and everything that goes with a normal life.
But now it's time to pick up the pieces, take care of my daughters, take care of myself.
