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Originally Posted By: punkin
I still sneak a peak.


punkin, I'm gonna follow you around today LOL...

You are strong enough, you're choosing not to be.

Excuses punkin ... <PEI sticking fingers in her ears> ... na na na na na ... I'm not listening ....

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If you're going to follow me around you better hit the road sis. It's a long haul from Canada to Arkansas.

Anyway, I don't expect anything from him for at least 30 days now. That's his routine. I know I'm strong enough; H knows I'm strong enough, I'm just a curious person. It's like betting, will it be a rant or a poof.

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ooooh ... I like roadtrips smile

Strong yes ... detached? No. Your choice ... rant or poof can't affect your day if you don't check, no?

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Sorry for the hijack DU,
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I have to admit, I too have to look.

I have that whole curiosity thing going on Punkin. Of course, now, and I have a feeling Punkin is close to, none of it bothers or affects me. However it is curious...



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Originally Posted By: cat04
I have to admit, I too have to look.

I have that whole curiosity thing going on Punkin. Of course, now, and I have a feeling Punkin is close to, none of it bothers or affects me. However it is curious...

Hey sure ... who isn't curious ... but do you send angry texts and rants back? My guess? Nope. S'punkin (I think that's what I'm gonna call ya now, since spunky is what comes to mind when I think of you!) does ... all fired up and givin' him a piece of her mind ... a couple of times in the last few weeks ...


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Honestly, there have been one or two responses in the last year.

As a rule, nope. It isn't worth my time and energy usually. When it is, I make sure to get the point across and end it then...

Depends on what the goal is though...



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You are ALL very funny! I am good at avoiding things, I just don't have patience when "I WANT SOMETHING". Thank you, I needed the laugh. My visit this morning with my IC was somewhat depressing as we came to realization about myself and ALL of my relationships. But enough about that.

Spent the rest of the morning cleaning my garage and then I went to the dump. Now, getting ready to pamper myself - a manicure and pedicure should do it!! Hope you are all doing something fun..

((((HUGS))))


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Hi All! Just catching up on all of the recent postings. Not really much happening my way. I still have my moments of depression, but trying to rise above it. I haven't spoken much to my H, but he wants to skype today.

I hope everyone is doing ok.

DU


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Spoke to H. He was very quiet and doesn't know what he wants to do. I don't know what to think. He says he loves me. Not sure what to do. Should I give up?


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DU,

Do you want to give up? Do you think you can outlast his MLC? Do you have the patience and the stamina?

He's still confused and no where near done yet.

No one can tell you whether or not to give up, that's a choice that you have to make.

(((Hugs)))

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