Life is all about the fences ... there just isn't a way to make everything black and white. Many shades of grey my friends ... many.
Walking away IS escaping a problem, no question. But what if it's all they were capable of at the time? We do what we can ... we do the best we can with what we know and have and when we know better we do better (very loosly and poorly paraphrasing Maya Angelou).
They were not capable of dealing with the problems at this time. You know what I know? At any point in the last 6 years I was not capable of making the changes I have made in the last year. So in a way I spent the previous 5-6 years escaping in my own way.
Punkin ... THIS IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU! Or your partnering skills ... his crisis is his crisis. I know you know this. Sarcasm aside
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
