In the process

[awest1217]

It completely stinks and I understand feeling disappointed and not wanting the marriage to be over. You are just like me and have been separated for quite a while, but it still hurts to know it is over and your spouse chose the OW over you. So sorry. From what I have learned, let yourself be mad or sad or anything else. This all sucks and it is all so stinking hard by yourself. I know for me the past few weeks have been nuts with conferences and so many other things that I really need some me time, but that won't be happening for a few more weeks. My next break from work isn't for another two weeks.

Hope things perk up soon!