Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

[AliSuddenly]

Thanks soooo much guys for being happy for me and for H! I'm still getting my head around it, and it’s a miracle it worked first time, the nurses were shocked! I am 40 soon, so I'm taking good care of myself and not lifting or carrying anything to minimise risks, lazing around and unfortunately putting on weight already!

Lea..Lovely to see you here again and that’s very sweet of you, I often wonder how you are doing too! I hope things are good for you? I remember that you decided not to pursue reconciliation with H anymore.

Thanks to everyones support here... its certainly has been a mad, mad, unexpected twisting path. But they say dont they, 'life happens whilst you are busy making other plans'. I may not even be married and expecting now if H hadnt left me.. I had a tendency to 'drift' or float about enjoying the present and putting off plans for tommorow. His leaving really galvanised my mind about whats precious in life and what I really wanted. Lets hope the next 7 weeks goes smoothly...!