The hardest thing I've ever done.

[Royloveshiswife]

My wife wants us to be "really good friends." I'll never give up. She invited me over tomorrow night to spend the night. The kids and me are going out of town this weekend and she wants to help us to get an early start. I have high hopes and realistic expectations. Don't push. She's already decided its over. Have to let her change her mind. Can't make her.

I don't know the specifics of your story, but she's prolly still in there. She "wants to be happy." She just isn't sure what makes her happy. People don't realize "The key to your happiness is in you." No one can make you happy. That's up to you. It's up to her. She just needs to realize that. Same as my wife.

My wife thinks she's happy right now, because she is partying with her new friends and she's "free." Something I learned years ago, the party ends. It's gets dull. You start to miss your family and the ones who love you no matter what. Your friends aren't near as smart or interesting as you thought. I just pray it's soon. I'm tough, but not this tough. I couldn't have made it this far without Gods strength.