Wow Future, we must be on the same wavelength or something...I also "lost it" in a way. I decided to enforce a simple boundary about where and how I would pick up our kids on my fridays. I have been picking them up from my mother in -laws house for the last 18 months. Well, now we are divorced and that seems like the wrong thing to be doing for me. I told her I needed the change and she would not help make it happen. I told her, "either the kids go to school instead of Nana's house or you pick them up from Nana's and bring them to me." She would NOT make the tiny sacrifice in her schedule and I told her I was done talking-hung up on her.
She tried calling me atleast 15 times in a row and I ignored every one. She texted a few times and finally she caved in and agreed. I told her to send the kids out to me when I pick them up and she can stay inside.
I have a hot date coming up with a salsa dancer and I will not hold back one bit.
