Tough medicine. At this point I feel like she has to do something. She has given a lot of hints. The counselor says she doens't think my W is ready to D me. I think my W IS trying to end the affair. She at least has said she'd have minimal contacnt with him during that 30 days. It is hard because they work very closely together. W says OM is trying to find another job.

What I was is "I'm ready to try". Should "I made it 30 days w/o the OM" be enough for me?

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011