Sweetie, guess what? You are human. And you are a woman with a huge heart and big personality and deep emotions.
Listen, you feel what you feel. It's what you do with those feelings that make all the difference.
And I know that at times you just want to shake your h til his brains become unscrambled. Here's the thing. It aint gonna work. You know this. I know you do.
I know it is so hard to comprehend this, but he really does not hear you. You are screaming at a rock that cant answer you.
So, you got all that out, right? No need to say that again.
Now you regroup. You take a breath. You do what needs to be done and you get back on the path.
We have all backslid. Heck, I backslid so much for so long my butt was black and blue. LOL!
But, you have great strength. You are on the right path.
Detaching takes as long as it takes. Different for everyone.