Not sure where to start or end, WAW? - #3

[john28]

LOL, i meant "I'm not SURE my husband will change..."

But yeah, I know. Seems pretty twisted on her part that it's all up to me to change given her past behaviors. But, that's how she feels. She thinks I'll do the same behaviors that "drove" her to have EA's.

Again, I know it seems very apparent to all of us here who needs to rebuild trust - but through all of this if there's anything I've learned how to do, it's listen. That's what she is saying and feeling.