why are you waiting for him to make the decision, so you do not have to be the bad guy? he does not want this at all apparently, so why should be make the decision? it is obvious to me he does not want to lose his family. are you wanting to take the family apart in an attempt to find your possible happiness? he is willing to work it out it appears to me. are you really willing or are you just waiting for him to get sick of you not showing or giving love?


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out