Steve, I see your point. I don't think it's more of the same however. mza has been talking with her on the phone too much and it leads into R talk.
If mza can speak to her without saying anything other than what you wrote, I would say OK.
I not into playing the games of tit for tat. He hasn't been able to talk to her w/o R talk. This is the reason why I suggest a brief text.
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