i think he just acts upon impulse, i find it hard to believe he does it just to have you feel weak. fro what you have typed he is not a vindictive person, he just has alot of fear. for 20 years it is love, no amount of doing for another person would make a person stay that long. trust me, me and the misses have just wrapped up 27 yrs and wow, we did in fact go thru just this phase. i was very much like your husband and my wife was at your point. never did i see what i had done for 22 yrs and then out of the blue she told me, i caught on and our marriage is stronger than ever, we moved due to new job and the new location has been great. we have a wonderful church and friends here that we never had in our home town. hang tough sister an it will all work out. i can read you love this gentleman and he loves you too. things get rocky and right now you need to bring your boat into the harbor and dock.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
