doodi, he needs to know what is going on in your head, the honesty because he sounds very confused and scared and obviously does not know about DB or else i can assume he would try it. but what do you want him to do? do you want him to tell you to walk? i doubt that and besides it sounds like you guys do have love your both just hesitant in letting the other know it. a leap of faith needs to be made by both of you. i would think he is trying to give you what he thinks you want. he does not want it and is probably trying to give you what he thinks you want.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out