My daughters are so tired of me using that line. Everytime they'd pout and say "I want XYZ!" I'd reply with "yeah, and I want a pony. You see one in the backyard?" Amazing how quickly that got old. But it stopped them!
I envy you, your little munchkins.
PS - careful about telling yourself your W has 'sex without love' with you...remember those confirmatory biases we were talking about on my thread? But. Anyways. I'm here to support you not to talk you into anything. I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. Thinking thoughts of courage for you.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
I envy you, your little munchkins.