Yeah, I looked at it. Seemed more like an advanced MC though. W wasn't interested at the time. I'm sure if I asked W to go, she would. But here's the thing, right now she'd be going to save our "marriage" not because she wants to be with me. Maybe I'm splitting hairs, maybe I'm expecting too much too fast. Maybe I'm just really pissed off about her comment about what she'd do if we didn't have kids.
Pinhead-- You're wrong here. On both counts. It's not MC at all. I've worked registration when marriage counselors themselves checked in to Retrouvaille for the weekend. Because it is different, and a MC can't give you what Retrouvaille can.
And you're wrong about "why" she would go. First of all, it doesn't matter, not one bit. It's like saying you can't enjoy a swim if someone pushed you into the pool. Sure, sometimes you need a push to do something. But once you are doing it, you find your own reasons to enjoy it. If she would go willingly, that is plenty good, no matter what the reason!
They ask you to go with an open mind and a willing heart. Ask yourself that question. That is the important criteria.
Nope. I think you have turned into the WA and you don't want to admit it.
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