Sure, it is working... but is it working too well??? He is really treating me as a 'pal' like all is well. We talked a little this morning and were asking each other how things are going etc. I happily shared all of my progress in myself and listened to his (same as the other day). He then started in talking about refinancing the house to pay me etc. I found an opportunity to let him know gently that I am still interested in seeing a counselor for clarity/closure etc. Told him about seeing Michelle and having it done in 2 days as opposed to weekly sessions for awhile... he listened, at first said he needs more time, maybe around January we could go. Then we got cut off as we were talking and it was left hanging. Hopefully he will think about it. We definitely had a good discussion, he brought me some things from the house he knew I needed for running etc. Told me he noticed I have lost weight and he has too (not that either of us needed to). He goes camping this weekend with his brother and sister-in-law, ugh, I suspect they do the typical family thing described in Michelle's book...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
