We Fall Down, We Get Up

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When I used to date a lot, this is kind of the numbers benchmark I used for measuring whether or not I was doing well:

1. 3 out of 10 women you ask out will say yes.
2. 1-2 out of 10 women who say yes to a date will really be into you.

3. 1-2 out of 10 women who are really into you will not have major emotional baggage or serious mental problems that come up by date 3 or 4.

So... if you ask 300 women out, 100 will say yes, 20 will be really into you at most, and one or two won't be so nuts (or be "users") that you figure out they are nuts by the 3rd date.

And you may have to go out on 100s of dates to find those one or two women who aren't nuts.

You have to learn to have fun with it despite the challenges that come up Oh, and let them talk... so you know if they are nuts, users, etc.

The solution to dating 100s of women you may never date more than once is cheap first dates (cup of coffee, a trip to the zoo, etc).