I know that once I cut the cord...financially and otherwise and get on with my life, get past all of this stress, I will find balance and peace...and hopefully compassion and forgiveness for H. I'm not an angry, hateful person...the opposite I'm compassionate, calm, happy, easy going with an attitude of "live and let live". I want to be that person again...and I will.
Mila, I like your new thread title.....says alot.
Right now you are forced to interact with your H and his non-sense. Once this becomes optional you WILL find that you can actually interact with him easier.....if you choose to interact with him at all.
I am going to take a stab in the dark here....
Once all the dust settles from all this, and you have stripped away all the responsibilities, all the stress, everything.....
You may just find a new Mila as Eric said. While this process is painful it may very well be the best thing that ever happened "FOR" you. (notice I did not use "to" you).
It is not until we get to the other side of this journey and look back and see the true benefit of taking the journey.
Happy Little Friday!!!!
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
