BJ, it's amazing how many wacko guys there seem to be out there. I used to hear about some real weirdos from a friend of mine who did on line dating. I don't know whether it's just the online thing makes it harder to guage people or whether there are just a lot of strange creatures running around single and free...or maybe both. Now, I'll tell you about a friend I had many years ago. He had this theory that one in ten women will say yes when you ask them out, so he'd get excited when one turned him down because every no meant that he was one closer to the woman who would say yes. He'd even ask out women he didn't want to go out with because he knew they'd say no and he'd be that much closer. So lets just say that nine out of every ten guys you date could be weirdos but then every weirdo brings you one closer to Mr. Right...I'm really trying to help you here...is it working?