Maybe I'm just really pissed off about her comment about what she'd do if we didn't have kids.
Yes, it appears from my POV you are angry about it. So are you disengaging or detached? Next time agree with her.
You still have expectations. Let her go, give her what she wants, take all the pressure off her, give yourself a break. Stop pulling the load on your end. She starts to pursue you when you do this, do what works.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
