I agree with Mr. Bond. I was here 6 years ago and there was no Allen or Puppy--just others that had some experience and added their 2 cents--and I did get my marriage back.

When you are on these boards long enough, you know what advise is coming--there isn't much that is "different" anymore. You also get the feeling who should let thier marriages go with love. I am one of those that has to do that--it's hard, but after being here (not continuously, but off and on) for 6 years I do see that I am one of those ones that doesn't have much to work with, but I did find ME thank GOD!!!