Ahhhh......sandwiches! It is a metaphor for making love. I think Pinhead (not exactly sure who) started it a while back and it kind of caught on with a few of us. I haven't had a sandwich in a very long time and I am famished! I really miss having those.
I don't know, part of me struggles with this because I am not divorced yet, but she has filed and made it abundantly clear to me that she isn't gong to change her mind, so I might as well consider myself divorced, right?
Also, even if I want this to still work out, isn't it kind of pathetic for me to just sit here and wait for her? That is not showing her that I am able to move on and be fine without her. I have read on the boards that dating is what finally turned it around for many guys here and if not, at least they were heaapy enjoying time with other women.
I'm so confused. Maybe I would find someone better than W or at least more compatible with me.
Thanks!
Dan, I don't think you're confused at all. I think dating for you is fine, you have realistic expectations, and you're not doing anything you'll regret.
And I love the fact that my contribution to the boards lingo is being spread far and wide!
